Why Does Our Communication Not Seem To Be Working?
Written by Lawrence De Tender   
Thursday, 03 September 2009 20:17
Well, the truth is that for many it is not a secret although it is a KEY ! To know something and to do something are totally different " right? Of course, lets ask ourselves some questions about our relationship : Are you feeling ignored? Does it seem like you are not being heard? Is your spouse not responding to your viewpoints or thoughts?
by LawrenceDeTender


Well, the truth is that for many it is not a secret although it is a KEY ! To know something and to do something are totally different " right? Of course, lets ask ourselves some questions about our relationship : Are you feeling ignored? Does it seem like you are not being heard? Is your spouse not responding to your viewpoints or thoughts?

Nowadays communication with the others has never been easier. Technological advancements have given us incredible means to reach others at anytime whether close or far, just press a button and you can reach them. But my guess is that your ability to communicate with your spouse has become increasingly difficult. All the technology certainly does not let us feel our partners pulse or hear their heart, or let us see what they are not saying.

So lets move forward and put down our phones and pagers, and turn off our email and computers for a little while. Now lets go back to the days when everything was face to face. Lets make sure we can hear our partners silence and see their twitch, or tight shoulders. Lets look into each others heart by using our natural sixth sense (also called a gut feeling).

Personal communication, when it comes to personal relationships, has very little to do with the technology but everything to do with intimacy and open communication. We must be able to reach each other deeply.

We should be asking ourselves NOT, How do I communicate effectively with my spouse. But rather, How do I connect with my spouse again? Once you reconnect, you wont be sitting there text messaging and waiting for a reply, nor will you be at a loss for words. Talk wont be strained or stressful, but rather it will be like the old days " when you used to finish each other sentences.

About the Author:

Before getting outside help please look at this Excellent Ebook "How to Save My Marriage"In addition get your free copy of The 7 Secrets to Fixing Your MarriageLawrence De Tender has been helping couples for 16 years.